Tuesday, December 11, 2012

You cry, I cry, We all cry



At what age does a child develop empathy, and are there ways of teaching empathy? In the article written by Perri Klass, the concept of empathy, referred as prosocial behavior of children as well as humans in general is discussed. As Dr. Decety explained, empathy is ability to concern, experience emotions with another individual. Furthermore, it seems we are predisposed with negative responses to seeing an individual in pain. This was demonstrated through rats choosing not to push a lever for food when realized that it brought upon to a neighbor rat.

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Just as the rat, the child in the article seemingly started to cry when he noticed his sister's distress to an ear checkup. In response to the child's cry one one wonder whether he was crying due to feeling empathy for his sister's pain or whether he simply wanted attention. According to Dr. Nancy Eisenberg, professor at Arizona State University,"Attempts at concern and reassurance can be seen in children as young as 1." Therefore, it may be likely that the child understood his sister's pain and was simply responding. So how do children understand empathy and how do they build it? Empathy may be predisposed within us, but also highly environmental conditional. On the other hand, there are studies stating the idea of a genetic component to empathy as proven by twin studies. Not meaning that there is a gene controlling empathy, but the possibility of heritability of personality characteristics.

However, the concept of empathy and the reason for it may be broken down into two reasonings according professor Scott Huettel at Duke University. The first concept is the idea that it simply "feels good" to help others. Studies show that the part of the brain dealing with reward lights up not only during "normal" rewarding experiences but also when helping others. Therefore, when one empathizes with another, it may be thought as helping the individual causing for the "feel good" reward to light up. The other idea is based on the recognition of other's needs. The two can work hand in hand to raise up empathy. The example given in the article was, giving money to those who donate blood. This would not only extrinsically reward an individual but it would also be intrinsic as one understands they helped save a life. 

Therefore, since it has been proven that empathy can be learned from one's environment at a young age it is beneficial to foster empathy, prosocial behavior, before the child learns to speak. The explanation of other's emotions is crucial to understanding and acting on empathy. However, it should be cautioned that children should not always be rewarded for their goodness but that they should voluntarily understand and build up their "feel good" reward bank. So the next time one baby cries and you notice every other baby crying realize they are acting on their empathy and applaud them 
 http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/12/10/understanding-how-children-develop-empathy/

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